(((shezbut))) - I think you handled yourself very well, even if you don't think so. if there's one thing that makes me grouchy it's not getting enough sleep or having my sleep interrupted...grrrr. The only thing I would recommend for next time - is if the girls want a sleep over, they can't pull a noisy all nighter. Instead of you being firm with them, you were hard on yourself. I think you did as well as any of us and tried your best to comfort and make your children happy.