<font color="purple"> I have been trying to figure out a way to respond to this without being disrespectful. I hope I am able to explain my disagreements politely. Please remember that I am only answering in how I feel it pertains to me and what I beleive to be true within me and my situation </font>

I agree with LEX here.... SEX is LOVE and disconnected sex only serves as a symptom of a much deeper emotional issue, that which lies from with in us.

<font color="purple">I agree that disconnected sex is a sympton of a much deeper emotional issue but I do not agree that sex is love though. </font>

SEX has always been the guidance to which all relationships are gauged.... and while it is not the most important part it does show what shape the relationship is or is not in.

<font color="purple"> I do agree with this for the most part, but I must add that I do not beleive that in my situation with my husband that it is an indicator of what shape our relationship is in. </font>

BTW – some people have sex to feel good while others have sex to bond, but no matter how you look at it, they both equal emotions (connection), which in turn in a human need that is fulfilled through this action. So no matter what your reason is… I say: GO FOR IT!!!

<font color="purple"> I like how you used the word bond instead of connected. For me it still doesnt exist though. I also don't feel that just because I enjoy sex and all that it is a emotional connection b/cI can have sex while I am angry, sad, happy , etc... Sex does not spark any emotional reaction, just physical in me. But I could be confusing physical feeling and emotional feeling too, I dont know... </font>