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Apr 13, 2011, 07:46 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Hi ~ I agree that you should tell the first guy that the relationship isn't going anywhere, and you just want to be "friends." If he gets hurt, that's not your fault. You are NOT responsible for how he feels. None of us has the POWER to make people feel anything! People control their own emotions.  So if he gets hurt - that's his problem. He will get over it. But you deserve whatever YOU want. Don't hold yourself back just because someone might get their feelings hurt. You could be missing out on a wonderful relationship.
Go for the doctor!! LOL And I wish you the very best! God bless. Hugs, Lee
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