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Apr 13, 2011, 08:08 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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I know how it was for ME ~ It was because I didn't like MYSELF. I had to feel comfortable in my own SKIN before I could feel comfortable around anyone else. If I don't like myself, I'm not going to be very good company around other people. I'm going to feel like a fish out of water; I'll feel lonely in a room full of people.
So I needed therapy to find out why I didn't like myself - why I HATED myself. Once I discovered the reasons, I set upon correcting those things. Now I LIKE being alone with myself. I DO feel comfortable being me ~ I like myself. That's important if I'm going to have friends because you project how you feel about YOU to other people.
If you're not in therapy, I'd suggest perhaps you'd find a good therapist and talk about things. It's done me a world of good for this and other problems. God bless!! Hugs, Lee 
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