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Old Apr 13, 2011, 09:30 AM
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Originally Posted by pallycoo View Post
On the 4th my husband informed me that he wasn't happy, didnt care anymore and wants a divorce. After only 3 weeks of a rough patch. We went to a marriage therapy session the day after and she told us she could help. That none of the issues we were having couldnt be worked through. But he wants nothing to do with it. And his reason are I dont care and i dont want to try. but he cant give me a reason as to why he doesnt want to. He is too busy listening to the horror stories of the bad army wives. even though i have never done anything to suggest i would do those things he told the therapist "Its not a risk im willing to take" I dont want this. i want to save my marriage. i love him so much. i dont know what to do anymore.
This may not be what you want to hear, but could he be having an affair?

It just seems strange he's accusing you of cheating when you've done nothing suspicious. Almost like a transference kind of thing.

Hugs to you....