Willow, I kinda know what your going through, only i'm the opposite. If I see a male I tend to get really rude, and if a guy tells me what to do, i have a problem with saying no.. Sometimes I consicouslly make the effort to say yes, but it's my way of telling myself that guys can't boss me around. Maybe you should try it once or twice. If someone tells you to do something that doesnt' have to do with your job or your boss or anything then just say no, and stick with it, no matter how childish you are acting, you have the control.