Bethy whatever I'm going to say is not because I'm judging you but because I want you to think about it.

You have been with this man for a long time. What you know today is that you have passed the most of your adult life living with this person. But you don't know about living alone or living with someone else or living without anyone hurting you or living a complete different life. How do you know it cannot be better. How do you know if peace cannot be find by living a different life.

What does that man bring to you? Make 2 lists. One positive and one negative.

Do you know how much people that work in "familly violence" can help you out and start new? Well they can help you. That I'm sure off.

Do you know that being a wife of this man for so long you can fight and get almost half of what he has if he go with the divorce thing.

Pills for blood pressure? If you don't take them and your pressure go too up, yes, you can have a heart attack but also a stroke, whit this last one, you will be paralyze on one side of you body for the rest of your life. Right now you can walk, talk, do whatever you want physically. Be careful please do not take the chance of being paralyze and be much worst then you are now.

Right now you are living day by day with a threat on your shoulder. A divorce threat. " Do this and do that" and there will not be any divorce. "Say this and say that" and there will not be any divorce. This doesn't make any sense.

I don't know your husband Bethy. I can only go by what you say. What I think of all this? He doesn't deserve you. YOU are much more then he is.

This is said because I care. Do not hurt yourself or die because of him.

(((((((((((Bethy)))))))))))))