[quote] and on top of all of this, my great aunt is in the hospital and took a big turn for the worse last night. which means she probably won't make it through the week. my grandma who is 90, would be her sister, have been living in the same assisted living facility for the last year now. they would talk and see each other multiple times a day. if my grandma's sister dies now, i have no idea how it will affect her. but i do know if i lose the two of them in the same year, it would be an incredible blow to an already struggling me... [quote]



just found out yesterday that my Grandma's OTHER sister died, and no one even know anything was wrong with her.

and my great aunt is still in the hospital. my Grandma goes over to see her when she can find someone to take her. i would, but i can't anymore.

you see, i've heard say that my great aunt just wants to die. i can't be around that. i have a hard enough time dealing with thoughts like those on my own.....