Has anyone asked their T why they do what they do? Do you get an actual answer that satisfies you?
I asked my T why she does what she does. She turns it back on me and says how would it help me to know that answer. She says until I can talk more about how it would help me then she will not talk to me about why she does what she does. I don't know why I want to ask this. It is a question that has taken me 2 years to get up the courage to ask. So she asks why now is it being asked.
I get so frustrated when I ask any question because it always goes in circles like this. I don't know why I feel the need to ask the question. I only know that it is a question that has remained in my thoughts heavily so maybe it should be voiced. Maybe if she answered then I could talk about my reaction to the answer.
Can anyone help me formulate some idea as to why I would ask this question?