I know this is a new pdoc, but have you thought about getting a second opinion. I know I'm not as trusting as I once was of pdocs and if something doesn't feel right a second opinion couldn't hurt. This is someone that you have to work with very closely and in my opinion our health is in their hands in so many ways so we have to feel comfortable. I wasn't there but from what you told us the suggestions and information seem a little overwhelming.