Byzantine,
You are right about the state of "misadventure". I agree it is my daughter who is the loser in conflicts between my wife and I.
I appreciate your opinion about both using my daughter as a pawn. Perhaps inadvertently, I have in the past. I'm just not sure where in my posts you got the impression that I was using my daughter as a pawn. I am writing these to get a more objective outside opinion. Therefore, if you could point out where you perceive me as possibly using my daughter in our disputes, please point this out to me so I can change in that area.
Thanks
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Originally Posted by TheByzantine
After reading both threads, it seems to me your daughter is being used as a pawn by both of you. If you are seeing a therapist, my suggestion is for you to print your posts for discussion with your therapist.
You and your wife may choose to remain in a state of misadventure. Your daughter essentially is powerless. She has the task of finding a way to muddle through the muck around her as best she can.
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