Dexter I’m not sure I in any way am a person who should be giving you advice so please don’t take this as such. People who don’t suffer or who have never gone through the things we go through yes, are or do appear to be thoughtless. But no more than we are to (what we would call ) their little problems. It was good advice to have it out with your ‘friend’ whom caused problems. If you really think you can’t handle the news letter besides taking the advice not to do it is there some way we her (I) can help through e-mail or PM’s? And as ozzie said feel free to vent, its better in then out O.K! Having said that (me idiot) there is a time difference but I am awake. Oh and your right never burn bridges you never know when you may have to cross back over them.