Peridot if my T started to cry during session that would be it. Just shows that everybody needs a different T.

Back to thread- Ive asked him- he started working with street kids, thought he could help them more by being T, specialised in addiction, work with addicts but felt frustrated, became "normal" T. I ask him all kinds of Q especially when I don't want to talk about myself. He answers them most of the time but never forgets to mentioned why I ask.
There are no forbidden Q in therapy. Ts can choose what they answer.

I think it is important you tell your T you do not appreciate her doing her circling dance around your Q. Especially if you fear asking.