Elana,

Interesting. I'm the only one I really trust. When I make a decision to do or not to do something I think of it either as having the expected result or an unexpected result - but it is never "wrong". Try to trust your instincts and don't worry about "wrong". Sometimes we tend to worry about the "lasting affects" of things - I try not to. I may create a bend in the road of my life but I trust that I can straighten it out again.