I think you need to try something new. Since she hasn't been listening to you, you should try to get her attention, bring her flowers one day. Suprise her, she might be off gaurd at first, but im sure it will make her smile. Maybe you need to spend more time together. Ask her questions about how her day was. Then go on into a larger conversation. If this does not work, sadly you may have to leave her. You have to remember to spend as much time with your little girl though. It's important to keep a strong relationship with her. Do not try to compete with your wife though about weather she likes one parent over the other. This will only make the situation for her a lot worse than it would already be.Good luck, I hope you are able to fix this problem.