Hi,
Welcome to the forum, please by all means pardon me for saying this but you say you "love her dearly"? Have you had her to a psychiatrist? Had she ever been evaluated and diagnosed with this disorder, cause you said you "finally realized" she has this schzoid disorder? I'm sorry but I think in order for some of us to give you some feedback you'd need to give us a little more info, this so far is a little too vague. From experience, when someone has mental disorders living with that person is very trying,exhausting while they are going through the hard times while hopefully their doctors are trying to hit on the proper diagnosis and medications that will help stabilize them. You need to realize the patient is also going through as much hell as you are, even more. Love is strong, if you truly love someone this can be some test of that, not saying a test of your patience. As I said, I don't know enough about your situation to give you any info that may be of help to you, infact I don't want to upset you, so if you wish to give us more background to work with and perhaps someone here can be of help to you. What I can say, seperation is not always the answer if you truly "love her dearly", if you haven't sought out professional help by now I suggest you do soon. I hope all works out for you two, take care now.
"darkeyes"