It is sad what we all have to struggle with.
I have anxiety disorders and my boyfriend is dependant. So we both have to function with the other's health issues.

I think it is great that you were able to get your partner's meds. When my boyfriend is in crisis, I ask him now if there is something I can do. Sometimes there is. Sometimes there isn't. And when I am in crisis, he asks me. ex. when I have anxiety about using the phone, he makes medical appointments for me. It takes him minutes. It would cause me anguish for days.

As for his tornados. (I don't get them.) I walk away. He drew me into them for about 5 years. I just couldn't take it anymore. I was functionning less and sometimes not at all because of his 'tornados'. Since I have been walking away, the threats have been less intense. I am not a doctor. It is not medical advice. I just couldn't take it anymore.

it is hard to know what to do when your partner is hurting
roses