Definetly a great start to letting her now exactly where you are coming from on this issue. Don't change anything you've got down- it's excellent! Keep working on it granite. I know I sent an email to my T a couple of weeks ago that took me at least 5 hours to put together. I don't think it's unusual at all to have a hard time trying to write your thoughts on paper- especially when you are not much of a talker. I'm proud of you!