Sorry to post again, but I was going to ask whether you and he have tried couples therapy? Sometimes in a "safe" environment husbands feel a bit more comfortable sharing stuff -- or a skillful therapist can help him (or her) become more self-aware of the stoicism and how excluded it can make a partner feel.
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