Rose,

First off apply for SSDI I got mine in a matter of weeks. It all depends on what your pdoc says is the cause for disability. They don't debate certain things. Think positive thoughts. If you have to humble yourself and ask your sister for a loan. Let her know your true situation and make small payments back to her to show her your good faith once you get your disability. You might also qualify for medicare. Check out all your options. Look online for advocacy agencies and get all the help that you need. You don't need a lawyer to file for disability. i'm sure it helps in some instances, but I just filled out the paperwork myself and had my doc do his part and got my money in a matter of weeks with back pay. It was only temporary but it helped get me on my feet.

I know that what you are going through is scary. i can't even begin to imagine being faced with that dilemna. So be proactive and reach out for help everywhere. I know they do donation drives here for truly needy members so you might ask DocJohn if he can do something to help.

You'll be in my thoughts and prayers.

Love and Hugs,
Tara