no problem with facebook here. It allows me to keep in touch with those I want to....even lets me keep in touch with my daughter more than before......so I really like it. Haven't had any problems or drama. Can also keep track of what's going on at the ranch where my horses are boarded in California.....I live in KY...moved here away from everyone that I ever knew 4 years ago when I left my husband......can keep in touch with those I want to & not bother with others. It also let me get in touch with others that I had lost contact with over the years after college. I am very selective about who I interface with, so it works very well for me.

Sorry you are struggling with it in your life.....many things that are good for some aren't for others.