WOW..What did I do right? Well, I went to an al-anon meeting. I have not been since my two surgeries because it seems my life has been in a holding pattern waiting for the next surgery. I can't do that so I am moving on. I really needed a meeting as I was having so much /many issues with the people here at my retirement community. I had to change my thinking and my attitude and be with "normal "' people. It really helped today!!! I am so glad I took care of myself today!!