Maybe she be interested in meeting my neighbor! We could hook them up.I had a major episode with this man. It was almost like a mugging in my own apartment bldg. I told management and they asked if we wanted to all get together and talk.Like I would want to discuss a burgler or rapist behavior with them? It was very bad and the second time this happened I called the police. I thought they would scare him but I don't think so. He like bragged about it...He is an unsafe person, and I am going to do my best to stay away from him.Unfortunately he lives right next door. I look both ways now before leaving my apartment. I have never had a man yell and scream or try to attack me like this either.

For you, just try to completely stay away from her. She has red flags blowing in all directions same as my neighbor. I learned in al-anon not to react but I had to go to a meeting today to get a hold on things because I had tons of great ideas on what to do with this neighbor and none of them pretty..LOL

Seriously its a big problem because like myself this neighbor is hard to ignore..very hard. You got to also figure out why she is pushing all your buttons as well. Does she remind you of someone etc......or is she just a b...h?

I know I need for myself to be at my al-anon meetings to care for myself because this man really frightens me and as the saying goes " I am allowing him to rent space in my head" This is not good.

I hope you find some peace with this. Right now ignoring this person and staying as far away is the best thing. Then deal with your emotions as to why she gets to you so bad! You and I need to let it go.... Let me know how things are going and if you have any good ideas we both can use!!!
Dee