We're the only ones who are to blame for the decisions we make. If you try to place the blame on someone else, you'll never get anywhere.

Start by setting goals for yourself. Where do you want to be in six months, a year, five years, ten years? You don't like your job and you're not happy with your boyfriend (understandably). What would it take to make you happy? What are your passions, your interests, your hobbies? If you can figure out how to earn a living from one of those, that's ideal.