Hey - sorry about that - I had typed up the reason for locking the thread, but somehow it got removed during the process of locking it. I just learned that you can't lock and reply in one single action. Sorry, Greenleaves!

I received a number of complaints that this thread was getting too personal and was straying in support of Greenleaves' problems.

I'm sorry you're having problems, Greenleaves. Please feel free to start a new thread in a specific forum (Personality Place, Self Esteem, or whichever forum you feel is going to provide you the most specific support)

Love,
LMo