Myzen, that really surprises me about you. At least since I first noticed you posting here, you've always struck me as someone who keeps a level head and who accepts their half of responsibility. You give such great advice to others and although I haven't really responded much, it's only because you've already said everything I would want to say, AND you articulate better than I do.

But to keep going with the topic... I don't think I'm particularly difficult. The main thing that I work on in therapy, though, is my relationship imbalance between my productivity style and my husband's. It bothers me more than it should to see people "relax"; I need to accomplish things and I get antsy if he's not following my style. He is at the extreme end of opposite of me in that regard, and it causes a lot of friction between us on our days off. My T is helping me learn to pick my battles better and to respect my husband's decisions on what to do with his free time, even if it's not what I would do.