Sky,

Gee, why didn't I think of that.........using a smilie that shows how I'm feeling..... I know others have done so.... just didn't think of it for myself.

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This being a support site makes it safer to not have to totally explain yourself, or guard yourself against pesky questions.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> -- that is something I also didn't think about--- I guess I look at it in black -and- white. I feel I either must explain it well, or don't post at all!! Gosh-- there can be a gray area!!! If/when I feel overwhelmed I could just use smilies when I'm to afraid -- or can't find the words to express myself.

I feel really dumb..... such a simple thing ...... I don't know why I thought of it as " all or nothing".

Thanks for that idea Sky.

mandy