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your analogy reminds me of how i felt when i was in an abusive marriage. he invalidated everything about me to the extent i didn't even know myself anymore.
now as soon as i see a red flag in a guy i RUN. never want to repeat my naivete. i've healed. no more will a spouse control me.
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Do not let your fire go out, spark by irreplaceable spark, in the hopeless swamps of the approximate, the not-quite, the not-yet, the not-at-all. Do not let the hero in your soul perish, in lonely frustration for the life you deserved, but have never been able to reach. Check your road and the nature of your battle.
The world you desired can be won. It exists, it is real, it is possible, it is yours..~Ayn Rand
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