Oh Beth, I'm sorry you feel so bad about how things are going =( I hope you and he can get on closer to the same plane of thinking, with him realizing bedtime isn't 8:30 pm as part of it

Your life is yours, he is just supposed to be helping, not controlling =(
Your existance is, for me, to be the wonderful person you are. Who I see helping people--which you are so very good at. You are a great friend that is important to alot of people. I don't know you as well as some, but I have the utmost respect for you. I've seen you tackle the toughest questions I've seen on here, and always have great advice. You are compassionate, caring, loving and give so much of yourself, you're amazing! {{{{{{{Beth}}}}}}}