
Apr 21, 2011, 08:24 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2010
Location: Michigan
Posts: 6,543
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Did he not answer your text because you text him TOO often?? Just wondering. Perhaps you could cut down on how often you text him. He might not like texting that much.
He sounds like a great guy ~ if he's patient & understanding, it sounds like you've got a good one. Do you have any reason to think he'll leave you besides your own fears? He hasn't given you any clues that he's going to, has he?
Do you have a therapist? If not, you really should be talking to one. Your self-esteem has taken a beating for some reason, and you don't think you're worthy of happiness. That shouldn't be the case ~ you need a therapist to help you understand that you ARE worthy of happiness and joy. You need to find out why you keep withdrawing from good relationships ~ shooting yourself in the foot before things get too close!!
Please see about getting a good therapist. You won't regret it, and your relationship will flourish once you find out that you're a GOOD person who deserves all the good things in life. God bless and please take care of YOU. Hugs, Lee
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