My friend introduced me to his brother shortly after his brother moved back to the area. We have been talking about a week. He is a nice polite man.
Now comes the part makes me feel terrible. He and his brother are twin not an issue in itself but come to find out they sometimes "share" gf. And currently are. He is not sexual with her and only talks to her.
Part of My issue is now I can't be interested in anything more than friends where before I was developing a smaLl crush. He says he likes me and I will probably continue to talk as friends. The issue is me being second fiddle so to speak. Even in normal situations I am second choice or not a choice.
I am a smart beautiful woman they all tell me that. Why am I never first choice I know I am worth it. I know I won't wait for someone to "pick" me after things don't work out. That's not cool. I guess wondering what I am doing that makes me a backup.