I should just bite my fingers and not say anything.

Daughter IMs me. She spends one night a week at her dad's now, Wednesday. What does she get to do tonight? Sit in on a family discussion of the girlfriend's "rage and anger" on Friday night.

Great. Another night of tears and screaming and slamming doors (on the g/f's part) so the kids are upset and can't do homework and can't sleep calmly. Just great.

Why do they have to put up with this? Why? When they don't have to.