yeah, i can relate to that. i could say that i say the same things a lot. every so often i crack, and i want to fit in just because i question why i look different. im not into conformism, and i realized this because i dont conform like that anymore.

what i think ive learned on that note, is that people who conform arent always conformists. im sure they are on some levels, but on others i have found that some people are worth talking....they have something to offer me.

this one girl i knew, i fell for her pretty hard, she was a big non-conformist but her philosophy is that she doesnt like almost anyone. and thats hard.

fear is a big weapon in the usa, i cant imagine not locking my door where i am now.

that is a good point though, perhaps the bigger issue is why there is such a hard line between conformist lifestyle and individualist lifestyle.