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You need to learn patience and/or understand, that when you are talking with someone or asking something of them or from them, that they can't just drop everything and run, people, just like you, have many things going on in their worlds, many much more severe and serious than your own stuff. If someone doesn't get back to you, doesn't have to do with you, doesn't mean they are ignoring you or annoyed with you, so do not feel that people are ignoring you.
Many people DO care about you.

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Yeah darkeyes. I really need to learn that just because people don't respond right away doesn't mean that they don't care. I need to learn to soothe myself more. Right now I'm relying on others to soothe me with I get upset.

I have to remember that people have more serious stuff going on too. The other day I was in chat and I was talking about my problems and how I was very upset. At first I didn't even notice that gurlbballgurl was there too. Her problems are much bigger than mine. She has to deal with brain cancer and chemo and surgery. When I noticed that I started helping her out.

I ended having a long private message conversation with her and I hope I made her feel better. It made me feel good to help her.