Welcome justmiserable,

I'm sorry you are having to deal with this kind of issue. Once a trust is broken by a spouse, it's extremely hard to get it back again. No matter how much you want to trust, if the situation isn't dealt with and discussed, it just sits around and stews for a long time.

TheByz asked a good question about some therapy to help you and your husband to work through the trust issue. I wish you well and hope you can work through this soon.

Take good care!