oh my gosh I am SO sorry. I hear you about how you feel. Its terrible that she forgot. And didn't even let you know. I'm sorry you feel so bad My heart hurts for you. I know how it feels-- old T did that a couple of times. It hurts, doesn't it? I know you said that it was okay, but PLEASE PLEASE be brave and tell your T how much it hurt. Your T NEEDS to know this. PLEASE talk about it. I really hope this never ever happens again. You ARE significant and you are important.