Hey Mandy...I must apologize for my post...I wasn't in the right frame of mind when I wrote it, which sort of answers your question, for me anyway...I post when I'm feeling bad and when I'm feeling good...so maybe I should wait until I'm at a better place before I answer posts of this nature...to tell you the truth I really don't remember why I asked those questions...and again I apologize...it was rude of me to answer a question with a question anyway...