Hmm - not for sure about that ideal.... for in my book touching is cheating if you are already with, committed to, someone.... to me it sounds as though he was out for a sexual thrill.
If I were you I would go fish in another pond - one with better fish in it, with morals and values for the other person they are sharing their life with.

Take - care.... loves.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -