I feel your pain! Ever since I've been diagnosed, I've felt like "damaged goods", and can't imagine anyone ever wanting to hang out with me. For me I'm taking small steps; I challenge myself to go out once a week, even if I really don't want to. I find it's opened me up to more people and made me a tiny bit braver. But I actually like shy people; I find that you have to work a little harder to get to know them sometimes, but it's almost always worth the effort