anyone can answer just a thought from reading this thread - isnt cyber stalking (this type of harrassment) a crime and didn't I read somewhere where mabe it was on CNN or some news affliiate that all states now have a cyberstalking law that is now considered finable and jailtime can be applied too. if so my oppinion is get to a therapist and take care of this problem quick before you end up under arrest. All computers show up by IP numbers on the website owners tracking devices (which is how website administrators can block members from access too) so that administrater and or website owner does have the means to locate and report cyberstalkers to the police if this activity continues.