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_Sky said:
It's a very heavy label, imo.

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Sky,

You're right about that. I thought about the thread because I was called 'difficult' by someone many years ago and it hurt me (it was my ex wife).

Yes, it is a hard label. For me I found that I had to admit that I had been difficult before I could make some changes. It wasn't easy.

Of course I was being 'difficult' because I was frightened of losing her, and that just speeded up the process. I think that we are often difficult when we are frightened and needy, and this is just when we don't get the help from others.

There is an old country saying, "When the goings easy the goings right; when the goings hard the goings wrong."

I'd prefer easy every time.

Good thoughts, M