I feel awful that this is happening to you! Also, that maybe, as someone mentioned above, your T thought you had enough going on. However, I find it completely untrusting that your T would not mention
anything to you about any of it. Maybe a different T or a support group WOULD be better for you. All wishes that you and your daughter can mend the situation. I am so sorry for what has happened, but I am new here for the past week, and everyone here has been so supportive and understanding, not to mention always has a ear ready to listen.. I hope you can find that here as well.

Much love to ya.