Have an appointment with the lawyer tomorrow...I'm just not taking his word for it because I just really dont trust him...he tells me yesterday that he has known her "longer than I think" and I also found out that he lied about he financed his car (he told me that got a loan from work and his mom told me that "that while it is not her place to tell me how he did purchase it that she would tell me that he lied to me and there is no loan from work") He also told me yesterday that he has been seeing a therapist for four months and that he is working on his anger but that its no business of anyone's but his and he didn't tell me because he knew I wanted to leave...so all these lies and now I have wonder was he sleeping with both of us (or someone else entirely) at the same time at some point? And if so how do I know that he didn't give me something...is the little boy even hers...she's been here a week and he hasn't been here once and she says she's trying to "find him" because her baby's father took off with him but she doesn't look too distressed and she didn't bring any kids stuff with her things when she moved in...I feel like maybe I'm being played for a total fool...or maybe I'm paranoid...I just don't know anymore. I need this to be over. I had a doctors appointment last night and I missed it (because he needed to talk "right that minute") and now I wish I hadn't missed it because I'm not going to be able to get another appointment for a long time...so many worries...