I don't believe that we ever run out of time to find the right person....it's worse when we try to push the issue & end up with a wrong person because we feel that desperate feeling that we are running out of time.
Personally, I don't look at the little things about a person. My grandmother was away nit picking on things about people & she really turned me off on being that way....I look at peoples personalities no matter how they look on 1st appearance. Working around a farm & always being an outdoors kind of person, manicures & pedicures nor facials always felt was a waste of money because I would only mess up what was done within a few hours anyway.....I don't even bother with makeup because I don't like the feel of it on my face....end up feeling smothered even with light blush & eye liner was something I would end up allergic to & my eyes would get all swollen. Think the natural look is so much better personally.