Perhaps you are right. Thankyou for your advice.

It all depends on what you think constitutes cheating and if there is ever a moment when it is acceptable. It also depends on how many chances you choose to give your friends etc. so they can change their minds about what the right thing is.

I think the fact that i INITiATED the cuddling, meant that this guy said to himself, i'm not doing this, i will not be to blame, it is not my responsibility to do anything about this.

I think it is a rather weak thing to do, indicated a weak committment to his girlfriend, coupled with a strong feeling for me, i think.

We'll just see what happens. I don't see permanency in our relationship, just fun.

Regards, Sometimes