I think if you're emotionally attracted to someone then you might find them sexually attractive as well. Though I wouldn't go and have sex with a woman who you don't know that well and don't have an emotional connection to and then feel grossed out. I think right now you might look at women too objectively with the whole "boobs, bums" thing. Unless there's an emotional connection between you and another person it might be hard to get turned on just like that by picturing images of a woman's body and expect to get all flustered. Maybe if you're lucky enough to truly fall in love with someone then the physical aspect won't be so daunting and unattractive anymore. But I'm only speaking from my own interpretation. It might not be the same for you.