First of all, let me explain that I have never been in a relationship, but am trying. I have over the last year tried a contact agency. There have been two ladies that I have corresponded with and upon meeting they decided that they don't like me or am not suitable. (I didn't meet both in the same time period, these were separate incidents!). And that is that. If they don't like me then they don't like me! I gave up with the thing. Three months ago I was contacted by another woman who seemed eager to meet me. At the time I wasn't feeling like meeting anybody. I left it for a week and finally replied as I wasn't sure what to do. There have been a few letters swapped between us and mostly we send SMS messages to our cellular phones. As yet I haven't even spoken to her. Whenever I try to phone I can't get an answer so have given up even trying to phone. She keeps saying she would like to meet and gives me a day asking if that would be suitable and I say Okay. Then before it arrives, something comes up and she can't make it. I'm not pressuring her in any way to meet & I haven't even asked her to meet. She keeps asking me and then canceling. This has gone on over the three months and I feel like I am just being jerked around. I don't know. Is it me? Am I thick? Am I missing something? She may be scared or nervous but I don't think that is the case. I can't work it out. Were supposedly to meet next weekend but I can't see it happening. And when she cancels that one should I just give up with her. As it seems to me I am being jerked about or she is too busy with other things that she can't even speak to me. Though I haven't spoken to her, she seems a nice enough person but I just don't know what is happening. Is there something I can do? Is there something I am not doing that I should be? I can't even get a relationship started!