I think that depends on your view point of sex. There are some that are extremely anxious about having sex for many different reasons. It can stem from insecurity or past sexual abuse (unresolved feelings) can also make one feel anxious about having sex.
Is there something inparticular that makes you anxious or is it the act itself? Have you spoken to your partner about this? Perhaps your partner could help you feel more at ease.
Huggles!!
Jen
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