For me I found that as a woman...

sex with women = Sex by intrigue
sex with men = Sex by force

Obviously i have issues with men and being raped/molested but there it is. I'm not a fan of oral sex so sex with women kind grosses me out but I can't help but be more attracted to women. The soft, kind, compassionate side of women that you don't find so much with men. Still i sleep with both men and women.

Don't worry about talking about things here, this is a real safe place.

Love and hugs,
Tara