Hi everyone, so my SZ bf (whose away at college) only sent me an ecard on Easter but no phone call! What`s more I hadn`t heard from him since the April 18th. He had been doing pretty good with the communication till last week. (quick background) I had been planning to dump him for a long time for many months and agonizing over the decision and had resolved to finally do it the last time I wrote on this forum a while back. Since then I talked to him asked him if he was too busy to put the neccessary attention back into our relationship and he said he would work with me on the relationship. Well I`ve come to realize something about him, he thinks sweet talking will fix everything and make me happy but it won`t! real actions only help. but I think its very hard for him to put words in to actions. and whats more he is not consistant and that bothers me. its like he doesnt get that something more than words is required of him he`s so wrapped up in his own thing I feel neglected and I just resent him. this is just a rant not that Im looking for solutions because i already know that leaving him would be the answer. at this point we are 3 months away from our 8 year annaversary and i cant help but think there is nothing to show for it.